Our Life As We Know It

Our Life As We Know It

Wednesday, April 10, 2013

The Good News and The Bad News

I didn’t want to ask THE question.  You know, the one that every time I even think about it my heart stops and my stomach drops.  The question that asks if my daughter will lose her finger. 

Dr. Zeri (the hand specialist) gave us good news and bad news.  I classified it them into the two categories.  You can do the same.  Here is what he said…

1. There looks to be plenty of blood flow all the way up her finger.
2. He has never seen a finger look like this before.
3. He doesn’t know why her finger is doing what it is doing
4. He doesn’t know if she can feel anything (suspicions are no)
5. He hadn’t considered amputation, but again, time will tell
6. He is pleasantly surprised about the difference in her  finger from Monday til today
7. There is nothing they can do now… either it will heal on its own, or it will not… and then the dreaded thing happens.  But I’m not going to go there just yet.

On the upside, Faith is happy, playing, so brave at the offices, and a joy to be around.  She was so happy when the nurse allowed her to pick a color of bandage.  

Jeff and I are struggling.  We’ve both cried today, and expressed how sorry we feel for our sweet innocent little girl.  We wish we could do something to help ease her anxiety and any fears that she is too young to express.   We are on edge, anxious, and fearful of the unknown.  (I know, none of those are characteristics of Christ-followers…)

One prayer of mine, a plea really, is that the loss of feeling in her finger is God’s way of answering my prayer to take her pain away… and that the feeling will return in time after the skin has healed.  I know God is the Great Physician, and He can do things like that.  Would you pray with us?  

Love
Lindsey

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